Tag: reflection
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I Put Flowers Up When Things Feel Icky Inside
I put flowers up when things feel icky inside. I sprinkle pops of color around my house that, ironically, only last a week or two. Fresh flowers are deceptive. They give the illusion of natural, lasting beauty. A hot summer wedding will have wilted flowers by the afternoon. What was once fragrant, vibrant, and tall…
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“You Can’t Have it All”
Discover how honoring your season of life as a woman can empower you to pursue your goals, find balance, and embrace your future with confidence.
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From Duct Tape to Gratitude: Learning to Be Satisfied With Less
Driving an old, beat-up Nissan taught me unexpected lessons about contentment, money, and faith. In this honest reflection, I explore how chasing upgrades—whether in cars or life—can distract us from true satisfaction, and how a shift in perspective (plus a surprise blessing) changed everything.
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Blueberry Pie
A heartfelt reflection on emotional giving, this poetic piece uses the metaphor of baking pies to explore themes of love, self-worth, and the quiet exhaustion of one-sided relationships. Perfect for readers seeking comfort, introspection, and emotional validation.
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Sober Curious: a generation obsessed with mocktails
“Turning 21 feels like a rite of passage, but as we navigate our twenties, many of us start questioning the role alcohol plays in our lives. From girls’ nights to cookouts, drinking seems like a given—but what if sobriety could lead to more meaningful experiences? This reflective piece explores the societal expectations around alcohol, the…
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Hot Mess Express
Feeling lost in your twenties? You’re not alone. As I approach 25, I’m realizing that life looks nothing like I imagined at 18. Between career uncertainty, comparison traps, and the pressure to “have it all figured out,” this decade feels like a rollercoaster. In this raw and honest post, I unpack the struggles of being…
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Dear Future Kids
Excerpt: We’ve all admired the couple who has been together since their teenage years—sharing inside jokes, reading each other’s minds, and humbly bragging about their decades of love. But for most of us, that fairy tale isn’t our story. And that’s okay. Our journey is filled with heartbreaks, solo milestones, and hard-earned lessons, making the…
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The Mashed Potatoes That Transcended Generational Curses
Generational curses might be real, but so are generational blessings. My family’s history is marked by divisions among the women, but one thing made it through unbroken: Grandma’s potatoes. As I peeled, shredded, and baked, I reflected on the invisible threads connecting generations past. If these potatoes could make it through, maybe there’s hope for…
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Mistakes I’ve made—and didn’t make—so far in young adulthood.
Navigating adulthood means learning from mistakes and celebrating wins. From relationship blunders to financial wisdom, here’s a personal look at lessons learned and milestones achieved. Mistake #1: Allowing relationships that lacked direction to shape my decisions. Settling or making life-altering decisions to accommodate others rarely works out. Win #1: Leaving my hometown. Stepping into a…
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When Your All Doesn’t Feel Like Enough
Feeling like your best effort isn’t enough? Here’s a reflection on hustle culture, the Thanksgiving mindset shift, and the power of gratitude for personal growth. “When your all doesn’t feel like enough, the answer is not to give more. The answer is to be still.” “As we progress through life, there will always be those…
Now What? 